Hi Honey.. I’m Home

Hi there.. I’m so glad you stopped by to see me. I’m here to talk about some of my very favorite subjects: love, being in love and making love (in all its forms), the swinging lifestyle, erotic writing, sensuality and sexuality, getting personal with some great ‘adult’ guests, the hottest toys, games, clothes and places for adults on the go, other adult topics and personal ‘fun’.

Check out my blog down below.

I hope to see a lot more of you because I know you’ll be seeing a lot more of me! 

Kisses… Honey

Catch me on Twitter/Facebook: HoneyRivers

Swinging – Is it Good or Bad?

Many times I’ve been asked if Swinging is Good.. or if Swinging is Bad. Good question.

I have always felt that swinging, in and of itself, is neither good nor bad. Swinging tends to be a magnifier of whatever is already present in the primary relationship.

If there is honesty, trust, good communication, etc. in the relationship, those tend to grow and expand to strengthen and enhance the relationship. Making the relationship better.

If there is dishonesty, mistrust and insecurity in the relationship, unfortunately swinging will magnify those as well. These tend to damage a relationship already in trouble. You can’t fix a bad relationship with swinging.

My wish for you and your partner is a strong relationship that brings you even closer together in the future.

Let me hear from you. Kisses – email me….Honey

PS.. if you have questions, tips, stories, fantasies, etc. please share them with me. If you feel like it, please answer my questionnaire either as a comment or an email. Thanks so much.

Swinging Questionnaire

Hi there.. These answers can be as complete as you would like and all names, emails, etc. will be totally held confidential. I would like to use the questions and answers either here on the site or in my upcoming revised book on swinging, so submitting them will be giving me permission to do so. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your help!

To send me an answer, you can either make your comments at the bottom of this blog post or you can email me directly – email me….Honey

Answer as many of the questions as fully as you feel comfortable… again, thank you for your help!

  1. 1-Are you in a committed relationship? single? married? living together?
  2. 2-Are you a swinger? currently? previously? thinking about it?
  3. 3-If you are an active swinging, how long have you been swinging? Less than 1 year? 1-2 years? 3-5 years? 5+ years?
  4. 4-How do you contact other couples/singles for swinging activities? where do you meet? approx how often do you go out?
  5. 5-Do you enjoy meeting 1 couple at a time or a full-out party experience?
  6. 6-Tell me about your best swinging experience?
  7. 7-Tell me about your worst swinging experience?
  8. 8-What is your sexual fantasy?
  9. 9-What tips do you have for a couple/single just fantasizing about or talking about getting into swinging?
  10. 10-Do you have any questions you’d like answers to?

For Club Owners/Party Hosts.. a few more questions…

  1. 1-Do you have any special ideas, tips, etc. for new couples or for getting your couples to mix and mingle?
  2. 2-Do you believe swinging is more popular/less popular that 10 years ago?
  3. 3-What age range of couples are you seeing
  4. 4-What changes have you seen in swinging in the last 5 years? 10 years?
  5. 5-Anything else you want to ask?
  6. 6-*Club Owners… I’d like to start a calendar of events for couples around the country.. .. may I contact you for your upcoming activity schedule or be put on your mailing list?

Kisses…. Honey

Come play with me on Twitter/Facebook: HoneyRivers


Swinging 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Recreational Sex

Hi.. I’m in the middle of revising my very popular guide for new swingers. I originally wrote this back in the 90’s as a way to help other new couples get started, understand some of the basics, answer questions, ooomph their relationships and have some fun, etc. Times have changed and the 101 needs to change also.

The original title was Swinging 101: a Beginner’s Guide to Recreational Sex

As soon as I possibly can I’ll have this available (hopefully this summer), so I’m starting an email list. If you would like to be added to the list, just drop me an email to the linked email on the site and I’ll get back to you as quickly as I can.

Also, if you’re an experienced swinger (single or couple) and have any input to contribute.. you’re more than welcome to jump in here also.

If you’re just getting started (couple or single) and have questions, concerns, etc., please don’t hesitate to let me know exactly what your questions are so that I can answer them for you.

Hugs to all and I’ll be seeing you real soon! Honey

PS – I’ll be self-publishing this, so let me know what works best for you, hard back, paper back, CDRom (if so what format), web-download, etc. Your input is important to me.

The next blog will be a questionnaire for you to answer for me.. Thanks for your help.. I hope I get to meet you soon…


Busy Weekend

Ok.. I got my newly revamped site up and going, but it still needs a bit more tweeking. The button links at the top are a bit messed up and unfortunately, my computer tech guy/lover/husband, Traveler has been busy on a work project that hasn’t let him help me. Hopefully we can look at it soon.

However, there is a Site Map on the right sidebar so use that to help you look around while I wait to get a bit of techie help.

Kisses… Honey

Updated Site

Hi.. I’ve just updated my site, adding the blog, etc. If you see anything that needs attention (missing link/picture, mispelling, etc.). Please, Please, Please be a sweetheart and let me know so I can fix it.

I’ve got lots more coming soon, so stay tuned.

PLUS.. if you have pictures, stories, questions, ideas or thoughts you’d like to share of things you’d like to see on our world of erotica… don’t hesitate to ask. After all, if you don’t ask, you don’t give the other person the chance to say Yes!!!

Kiss.. Honey