A Lake Day-June’09

 Hubby and I are at our lake place for the summer. It was mostly a quiet weekend, but we had a lot of fun. Today we spent the afternoon at the lake on our boat. Fun, fun & more fun  

Here’s a few pics…



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I’ve put a few more pictures over in the Photo section of the website – click here. Thanks for stopping by. I’ll have more up soon. Kisses….Honey

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To All the Women in my Life!

A dear friend sent me this and asked that I share it with the special women in my life. Many of the most special women in my life read this blog at least occasionally so I am sharing it with each of you in this way. And please take the last line to heart!

You are all worth more than gold and more than words could ever express.

Women have strengths that amaze men.
They bear hardships and they carry burdens,
But they hold happiness, love and joy.
They smile when they want to scream.
They sing when they want to cry.
They cry when they are happy
And laugh when they are nervous.
They fight for what they believe in.
They stand up to injustice.
They don’t take ‘no’ for an answer
When they believe there is a better solution.
They go without so their family can have.
They go to the doctor with a frightened friend.
They love unconditionally.
They cry when their children excel
And cheer when their friends get awards.
They are happy when they hear about
A birth or a wedding.
Their hearts break when a friend dies.
They grieve at the loss of a family member,
Yet they are strong when they
Think there is no strength left.
They know that a hug and a kiss
Can heal a broken heart.
Women come in all shapes, sizes and colors.
They’ll drive, fly, walk, run or e-mail you
To show how much they care about you.
The heart of a woman is what
Makes the world keep turning.
They bring joy, hope and love.
They have compassion and ideas.
They give moral support to their
Family and friends.
Women have vital things to say
And everything to give.


Please, Please my dear sisters and friends… remember your worth… Hugs – Honey

Swinging – Is it Good or Bad?

Many times I’ve been asked if Swinging is Good.. or if Swinging is Bad. Good question.

I have always felt that swinging, in and of itself, is neither good nor bad. Swinging tends to be a magnifier of whatever is already present in the primary relationship.

If there is honesty, trust, good communication, etc. in the relationship, those tend to grow and expand to strengthen and enhance the relationship. Making the relationship better.

If there is dishonesty, mistrust and insecurity in the relationship, unfortunately swinging will magnify those as well. These tend to damage a relationship already in trouble. You can’t fix a bad relationship with swinging.

My wish for you and your partner is a strong relationship that brings you even closer together in the future.

Let me hear from you. Kisses – email me….Honey

PS.. if you have questions, tips, stories, fantasies, etc. please share them with me. If you feel like it, please answer my questionnaire either as a comment or an email. Thanks so much.

Swinging Questionnaire

Hi there.. These answers can be as complete as you would like and all names, emails, etc. will be totally held confidential. I would like to use the questions and answers either here on the site or in my upcoming revised book on swinging, so submitting them will be giving me permission to do so. I can’t tell you how much I appreciate your help!

To send me an answer, you can either make your comments at the bottom of this blog post or you can email me directly – email me….Honey

Answer as many of the questions as fully as you feel comfortable… again, thank you for your help!

  1. 1-Are you in a committed relationship? single? married? living together?
  2. 2-Are you a swinger? currently? previously? thinking about it?
  3. 3-If you are an active swinging, how long have you been swinging? Less than 1 year? 1-2 years? 3-5 years? 5+ years?
  4. 4-How do you contact other couples/singles for swinging activities? where do you meet? approx how often do you go out?
  5. 5-Do you enjoy meeting 1 couple at a time or a full-out party experience?
  6. 6-Tell me about your best swinging experience?
  7. 7-Tell me about your worst swinging experience?
  8. 8-What is your sexual fantasy?
  9. 9-What tips do you have for a couple/single just fantasizing about or talking about getting into swinging?
  10. 10-Do you have any questions you’d like answers to?

For Club Owners/Party Hosts.. a few more questions…

  1. 1-Do you have any special ideas, tips, etc. for new couples or for getting your couples to mix and mingle?
  2. 2-Do you believe swinging is more popular/less popular that 10 years ago?
  3. 3-What age range of couples are you seeing
  4. 4-What changes have you seen in swinging in the last 5 years? 10 years?
  5. 5-Anything else you want to ask?
  6. 6-*Club Owners… I’d like to start a calendar of events for couples around the country.. .. may I contact you for your upcoming activity schedule or be put on your mailing list?

Kisses…. Honey

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Swinging 101: A Beginner’s Guide to Recreational Sex

Hi.. I’m in the middle of revising my very popular guide for new swingers. I originally wrote this back in the 90’s as a way to help other new couples get started, understand some of the basics, answer questions, ooomph their relationships and have some fun, etc. Times have changed and the 101 needs to change also.

The original title was Swinging 101: a Beginner’s Guide to Recreational Sex

As soon as I possibly can I’ll have this available (hopefully this summer), so I’m starting an email list. If you would like to be added to the list, just drop me an email to the linked email on the site and I’ll get back to you as quickly as I can.

Also, if you’re an experienced swinger (single or couple) and have any input to contribute.. you’re more than welcome to jump in here also.

If you’re just getting started (couple or single) and have questions, concerns, etc., please don’t hesitate to let me know exactly what your questions are so that I can answer them for you.

Hugs to all and I’ll be seeing you real soon! Honey

PS – I’ll be self-publishing this, so let me know what works best for you, hard back, paper back, CDRom (if so what format), web-download, etc. Your input is important to me.

The next blog will be a questionnaire for you to answer for me.. Thanks for your help.. I hope I get to meet you soon…


Busy Weekend

Ok.. I got my newly revamped site up and going, but it still needs a bit more tweeking. The button links at the top are a bit messed up and unfortunately, my computer tech guy/lover/husband, Traveler has been busy on a work project that hasn’t let him help me. Hopefully we can look at it soon.

However, there is a Site Map on the right sidebar so use that to help you look around while I wait to get a bit of techie help.

Kisses… Honey